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If You’re Lacking in Self Confidence, It’s No Laughing Matter – I know I’ve Tried It

When Self Confidence seems to elude you and you look around and everyone else seems to have it by the bucket load, you begin to see every situation as daunting.  Probably, like me, you start to avoid certain people or situations.  You’ll also think you’ll never be able to overcome your low self confidence.

Life is so affected by self confidence (or lack of it).  The outcome of almost every situation you encounter is influenced by how confidence you feel and in turn what you say, do and project because of that level of self confidence.  Here are just a few situations that could leave you with a feeling of dread:

  1. An important business meeting
  2. Parities and social gatherings with new people
  3. Dating
  4. Getting the result you want in your relationships
  5. Joining new groups or hobbies (turning up on the first night)

There are so many situations, where do I begin!

I remember when I was seriously lacking in self confidence, going to parties and I’d try and think of every possible excuse as to why I couldn’t or shouldn’t go.  Even if I went with my husband or friends, that didn’t really help.  Invariably they would see someone they knew and begin a lively conversation.  For a while I could listen but eventually I was so worried about what to say, I would drift off and be standing the corner, waiting for someone, anyone to take pity.

It’s Much More Difficult to Be the Wallflower at Parties

Yes, the above statement is so true.  Now that I’ve gone over the other side and have good level of self confidence and self esteem, I realise just how much effort it took to be the person standing in the corner at parties:

  • I’d worry about what people would thin
  • I’d constantly be trying to think of something witty or intelligent to say or do
  • I’d be forever comparing myself to others

My Top Trick for Overcoming a Lack of Self Confidence

You see, misguidedly I thought I was the one who needed to appear intelligent or who needed to know what to say or do.  I’d read some books and tried some stuff, but none of it had worked.  One big tip I learned – and there are so many tricks and quick things you can do – was that in order to be ‘interesting’, you need to be ‘interested’.  That means being interested in other people, without worrying whether they’re interested in me.

If You’re Reading This Article, It’s Your Turn to Make 2011 the Year to Fulfil Your Bucket List Dream with Massive Self Confidence

If You’re Lacking in Self Confidence, It’s No Laughing Matter – I know I’ve Tried It

When Self Confidence seems to elude you and you look around and everyone else seems to have it by the bucket load, you begin to see every situation as daunting. Probably, like me, you start to avoid certain people or situations. You’ll also think you’ll never be able to overcome your low self confidence.

Life is so affected by self confidence (or lack of it). The outcome of almost every situation you encounter is influenced by how confidence you feel and in turn what you say, do and project because of that level of self confidence. Here are just a few situations that could leave you with a feeling of dread:

- An important business meeting

- Parities and social gatherings with new people

- Dating

- Getting the result you want in your relationships

- Joining new groups or hobbies (turning up on the first night)

There are so many situations, where do I begin!

I remember when I was seriously lacking in self confidence, going to parties and I’d try and think of every possible excuse as to why I couldn’t or shouldn’t go. Even if I went with my husband or friends, that didn’t really help. Invariably they would see someone they knew and begin a lively conversation. For a while I could listen but eventually I was so worried about what to say, I would drift off and be standing the corner, waiting for someone, anyone to take pity.

It’s Much More Difficult to Be the Wallflower at Parties

Yes, the above statement is so true. Now that I’ve gone over the other side and have good level of self confidence and self esteem, I realise just how much effort it took to be the person standing in the corner at parties:

- I’d worry about what people would thin

- I’d constantly be trying to think of something witty or intelligent to say or do

- I’d be forever comparing myself to others

My Top Trick for Overcoming a Lack of Self Confidence

You see, misguidedly I thought I was the one who needed to appear intelligent or who needed to know what to say or do. I’d read some books and tried some stuff, but none of it had worked. One big tip I learned – and there are so many tricks and quick things you can do – was that in order to be ‘interesting’, you need to be ‘interested’. That means being interested in other people, without worrying whether they’re interested in me.

If You’re Reading This Article, It’s Your Turn

If You’re Lacking in Self Confidence, It’s No Laughing Matter – I know I’ve Tried It

When Self Confidence seems to elude you and you look around and everyone else seems to have it by the bucket load, you begin to see every situation as daunting.  Probably, like me, you start to avoid certain people or situations.  You’ll also think you’ll never be able to overcome your low self confidence.

Life is so affected by self confidence (or lack of it).  The outcome of almost every situation you encounter is influenced by how confidence you feel and in turn what you say, do and project because of that level of self confidence.  Here are just a few situations that could leave you with a feeling of dread:

-  An important business meeting

-  Parities and social gatherings with new people

-  Dating

-  Getting the result you want in your relationships

-  Joining new groups or hobbies (turning up on the first night)

There are so many situations, where do I begin!

I remember when I was seriously lacking in self confidence, going to parties and I’d try and think of every possible excuse as to why I couldn’t or shouldn’t go.  Even if I went with my husband or friends, that didn’t really help.  Invariably they would see someone they knew and begin a lively conversation.  For a while I could listen but eventually I was so worried about what to say, I would drift off and be standing the corner, waiting for someone, anyone to take pity.

It’s Much More Difficult to Be the Wallflower at Parties

Yes, the above statement is so true.  Now that I’ve gone over the other side and have good level of self confidence and self esteem, I realise just how much effort it took to be the person standing in the corner at parties:

-   I’d worry about what people would thin

-  I’d constantly be trying to think of something witty or intelligent to say or do

-  I’d be forever comparing myself to others

My Top Trick for Overcoming a Lack of Self Confidence

You see, misguidedly I thought I was the one who needed to appear intelligent or who needed to know what to say or do.  I’d read some books and tried some stuff, but none of it had worked.  One big tip I learned – and there are so many tricks and quick things you can do – was that in order to be ‘interesting’, you need to be ‘interested’.  That means being interested in other people, without worrying whether they’re interested in me.

If You’re Reading This Article, It’s Your Turn to Make 2011 the Year to Fulfil Your Bucket List Dream with Massive Self Confidence

Make your New Year a Brand New Start, Overcome Your Lack of Self Confidence Once and For All – You Deserve To Put Yourself First <a target=”_new” href=”http://www.fionachristie.info”>click on this link</a> to begin your journey to the new self confident you. <a target=”_new” href=”http://www.fionachristie.info”>Obtain Self Confidence Easily</a>

to Make 2011 the Year to Fulfil Your Bucket List Dream with Massive Self Confidence

Make your New Year a Brand New Start, Overcome Your Lack of Self Confidence Once and For All – You Deserve To Put Yourself First <a target=”_new” href=”http://www.fionachristie.info”>click on this link</a> to begin your journey to the new self confident you. <a target=”_new” href=”http://www.fionachristie.info”>Obtain Self Confidence Easily</a>

Make your New Year a Brand New Start, Overcome Your Lack of Self Confidence Once and For All – You Deserve To Put Yourself First click on this link to begin your journey to the new self confident you. Obtain Self Confidence Easily


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